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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:36

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

When sharing a wife, is it best with your buddy or a stranger?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What can you do if you are a full-grown adult, but never experienced being a child?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do people still think Michael Jackson was guilty?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Is it recommended to leave a note in a lost wallet asking for it to be returned?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why is the word "democracy" not in the preamble of the US Constitution?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How does Arab culture and values differ from western culture and values?

Does not procrastinate.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why do I feel so lazy every time I get into my room?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Have you ever seen a woman having sex with a dog?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How do you find out who your handler is as a targeted individual?

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why doesn't speeding significantly decrease one’s commute time? I've done a lot of road trips and driving and have experimented by increasing speed by 10–20%, but somehow this never equates to arriving 20% sooner, even on clear roads.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does turmeric help fight cancer? If so, how?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.